I have realize that it is no longer good to be single. I have a hole in my life and in my soul that needs to be corrected. I am in search for someone special to fill that void in my life. She will need someone who is a honest person, and a sincere partner in her life. She will want someone who will respect her and women in general. She will want a man who is loving, caring and giving. It will be important that he be a gentlemen and open doors, pull out chairs, listen to your thoughts and opinions and consider your points of view So you must be asking yourself why am I still single? Well I have been concentrating on my job and career. Life, living and time has the ability to run away from you. One day you turn around you are 30, you turn around again and you are 40 now I am 59 and wondering where the time has gone. I have been distract from the important things in life. Now since my epiphany I am focused on finding the best partner to be my friend, my mate, my inspiration to experience life from a different perspective. In my job I am focused and goal oriented, outside side of work I am down to earth, but occasionally display type A personality. But, a hug and a kiss and a smile usually takes me to a calm state of mind. I am mature and a traditional gentleman with traditional values. I live in Chicago in the summers and Costa Rica in the winter. I can be flexible enough under the right conditions to live in Colombia or the DR in the American winters if this is best for my mate. It is my hope that we will travel, experience different cultures. Relax and have fun and enjoy the life that we have work hard for. I am learning Spanish so please be patient. Communication will be difficult at first, but the struggle will be worth it. . I live in Chicago in the summers and Costa Rica in the winter. I can be flexible enough under the right conditions to live in Colombia or the DR in the American winters